Why do you escort?
I find that escorting allows me to meet a fascinating variety of people, all of different backgrounds, interests, and lifestyles. I find that very enjoyable and exhilirating. As a bonus, escorting gives me the time and freedom to pursue passions (artistic, educational, entrepreneurial) that are extremely important to me.
What is your schedule?
I am available by appointment, when scheduled in advance. The more notice, the better the likelihood that I will be available at the time you request. Same-day encounters are never available.
Do you provide incall?
I will provide hotel accommodations at a location convenient to you. An advance deposit is required.
Are your pictures you? When were they taken?
All photos in my gallery and ads are of me, and accurately depict my physical condition. If you hover over each photo, you can see the date on which it was taken. You will not meet someone 15 pounds heavier or 15 years older than in her photos. The professional photos (Main Gallery) are very minimally retouched; candids (Selfies Gallery) are completely unretouched.
May I write a review?
I've been established long enough that I don't feel like reviews are really necessary or helpful to me. I personally prefer to keep the details of our date discreet (meaning, offline). If you enjoyed my company, I'd much prefer you thank me with a repeat date :) If you must write a review, that is certainly your prerogative - however, please be tasteful and discreet, and please respect my privacy by never sharing any details of services or, any personal details about me beyond what I choose to share on my website or social media. Private Delights is a site I prefer above others. But again... I really do prefer you don't write one. Thank you :-)
In what areas are you available? Do you travel?
I'm based in Manhattan. I can travel to you if you are located elsewhere. All travel dates require a deposit. For destinations more than 3 hours from Manhattan, please see my fly-me-to-you page (even if it's really train-me-to-you :) ).
Do you have age or other restrictions for clients?
My strong preference is to see mature gentlemen over the age of ~40. With that said, I have no absolute rules or restrictions, and make all decisions on a case-by-case basis. Basically, I want to meet kind, interesting people who will treat someone in my profession with the utmost respect.
Can we meet face-to-face in lieu of screening?
I'll arrange a date only after you have been screened. I won't take time to meet with someone not yet vetted as trustworthy and safe. In addition, screening beforehand will create a more secure and comfortable atmoshphere for our meeting, which in turn helps to create a more positive experience for us both. My contact form will guide you through the screening process. If you are not comfortable with the screening process, you will unfortunately need to find another companion.
Can you meet me socially, for coffee or dinner?
Many people find my company enjoyable - simply put, that is what I do for a living. While I may genuinely enjoy spending time with you, I will also consider your respect for my time and profession a great courtesy.
Do you offer BDSM sessions?
While I sometimes partake in *light* role play, I'm really not the right person for you if you're looking for an immersive BDSM experience. If that's the case, I recommend seeking out a professional dominant or submissive. These two websites are a great place to start your search: http://theartofdomination.com and http://theartofsubmission.com
(No, I'm not looking for the right person to initiate me ;-) )
I want to be in touch between meetings. May I text or email you?
I will provide a phone number just prior to our meeting; however, that number is to be used only right before our date. Please use email at all other times.
While I love celebrating these positive connections, I want to remind everyone to please keep all outreach mindful and moderate. Excessive outreach may start to feel uncomfortable or inappropriate, which will unfortunately make me less inclined to accept future dates.
While I appreciate the friendly sentiment behind "Hi, what's up?" messages, I do not have the capacity for chat in between meetings. Please keep all outreach — including texts, emails, and DMs — to what is necessary for our dates. On social media, while normal engagement is welcome, please keep it to just that. While these things may seem like just a quick 'hi' here or there, that kind correspondence actually eats up a lot of time and energy.
It is always a sweet surprise to receive an occasional 'hello' alongside a gift from my wishlist, and I am so thankful for the friends who have put a smile on my face throughout the years. Your kindness means the world to me!
Do you smoke?
No. I don't mind if you are a smoker, but I do request that you try to refrain from smoking while you are around me.
Do you have tattoos or piercings?
Pierced ears, nothing else. No tattoos.
What will you wear on our date?
I will dress appropriately for the occasion, while also respecting your expressed desires as to attire (if applicable). I would never wear anything that would attract attention to me (or you) in anything but a positive manner. I have a fairly extensive wardrobe which is flattering, tasteful, and makes me stand out rather than stick out :)
You may dream of dressing me up in a specific outfit or look, and taking me out on the town. Please realize that I may not always feel comfortable dressing a certain way in public. I reserve the right to decline any request, for any reason. If you're absolutely dying to see me in a dream outfit, I'd be very happy to model it for you behind closed doors :-) Or, perhaps we can go shopping for an outfit that pleases us both :)
Do you allow photos or video to be taken during our time together?
No, absolutely not. But we will always have our memories!
Do you like women?
Yes, I enjoy women very much! There are several amazing women with whom I particularly love to play (please click here to see my 'Friends' page), and I'm always happy to meet new friends :)
We request a 90-minute minimum for this. An hour is too short for double the fun!!! ;) ;) ;)
Do you like gifts?
I'd love for you to make a donation someplace (in my name or yours), rather than gifting me. I support Alzheimer's research, Project Safe Philly, Witness to Innocence, and helping North Korean refugees. But if you prefer to give me a physical gift - or perhaps you would enjoy seeing me in a certain type of lingerie? - I have put together a list of items here.
Are you available for exclusive, semi-exclusive, or other long-term arrangements?
With the right situation... perhaps? It's not something I particularly seek. I do very much enjoy seeing old friends on a regular or semi-regular basis :)
Can I marry you?
Be careful what you wish for... ;-)
But, to be serious... while we may truly share a special connection, our time together is meant to be enjoyed within this specific designated context. If you are looking for a relationship, then please search elsewhere.
Are you single?
Please see above :-) I don’t believe that my relationship status is relevant to our time together. Please let it suffice to say that I am 100% dedicated to providing excellent companionship services, and having a great time while doing so!
What information should I include when first reaching out? What can I ask, and is there anything I should NOT say?
The screening information I request in my form is necessary, and it's best to provide it when first reaching out. Aside from that, please include all details I will need to determine if we will be able to meet - date, time, location, duration, etc. - as well as a brief, polite message introducing yourself. I always like to know something about who I will be meeting, and definitely want to be assured that there is a "real" (hopefully nice) person behind your email. If I can't get a sense that you are polite, respectful, and well-meaning, I won't agree to meet you.
Also, PLEASE keep all emails discreet. They should pass the Grandma test (if you wouldn't say it in front of Grandma, leave it out). Sorry. Anything else will make it unsafe for me to agree to spend time with you, and I will cut off all contact immediately. If you don't understand why, a quick Google search will inform you of the legal reasons that my stance on this issue is absolutely necessary. On a personal note, why anybody would want to put such things in writing is completely beyond me, and hopefully (if we are destined to meet) you feel the same way.
I emailed you, and you never replied. What gives?
Perhaps there wasn't respect shown for my verification process (please see my contact form).
If an email is vague (no details), or excessively terse, I will assume that the inquiry is not serious, and/or is not likely to be a proposal that will interest me.
If your email contains or even hints at anything explicit, it is unsafe for me to agree to spend time with you. (If you don't understand why, a quick Google search will inform you of the legal reasons that my stance on this issue is absolutely necessary.)
I don't answer emails sent just to chat - if I encouraged this, I would be permanently glued to my laptop!
If none of the above, then you may have come across as a person I would not wish to meet.
It’s been my unfortunate experience that, when I politely decline a request to meet, the other party persists with entreaties or even insults. Thus, if I get the sense that we won’t be a match, I will not engage at all. While you may not agree with my decision, I ask that you respect my wishes.
Is there anything else?
I’ll assume that common sense will suffice - however, there are two subjects I’d like to address.
1) I am an easygoing person, not particularly partial to rules or formalities. However, respect for time is extremely important to me. Please don’t take advantage of my kindness. (I’m not talking about innocently losing track of time, as I do agree the hours fly by while we’re having fun :-) ). If I feel that you’re disregarding my time, or purposefully endeavoring to delay your departure (or mine) beyond the agreed-upon time, it is unlikely that you’ll find me inclined to accept future dates.
2) Dates 3 hours or more require a meal or refreshment, and social time. If you prefer to remain behind closed doors for 4+ hours during any date (excluding overnights), please add 25% to the fee posted in my 'Donations' section.
My company is very much in demand, so I have no need or desire to spend time with somebody who doesn’t treat me with the utmost consideration. With that said, most people I’ve met have been completely amazing, true gentlemen in every sense of the word. Hopefully, these two points are completely unnecessary reminders, and we can enjoy a mutually pleasurable relationship for a long time :)
